by US!C Relationship Coach Keisha M. Green
Several people find it difficult to express love. This article contains vital and proven information on how to be more successful in love, how to have a successful relationship, and proven tips on how to love someone truly.
HOW TO BE MORE SUCCESSFUL IN LOVE "The best and the most beautiful thing in the world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart." ~ Helen Keller. Love is a deep affectionate romantic feeling. It is borderless and breaks every boundary. It is a special feeling that almost everyone wants to experience. However, one question that strikes the mind is why can't everyone have a successful relationship? Do you find it difficult to truly love someone? Relax, your question on how to love someone will be answered in this article. Oh amazing, you've met the love of your life and can't imagine a world without her. You're giving your all, however, she's not replicating the vibe. The relationship is fast becoming parasitic where only one party is giving and the other is only receiving. Your fears are true and worth seeking a solution. It is true that a parasitic romantic relationship will almost always hit the rock. This is because love entails both giving and receiving. Whenever one part of the giving and receiving cycle is lost or not frequently expressed, it drains one of the partners of their love emotion. You've probably divorced your ex-wife or ex-husband and you're in a new relationship. Oh, you have tried and seem not to be making headway as regards how to love your wife? You have asked several, what is important in a relationship that you ain't doing but you get unsatisfactory answers? I understand your frustrations. Worry no more, this article has been written to put a smile on your face and address your worry. When we start a romantic relationship with our partner, we always feel so confident about how unending the sweet companionship we share together will be. Promises are made, love songs are played, dates occur frequently and we take time out often to visit the cinema or perhaps something we both enjoy; cycling, watching live football. These experiences build up our emotional connection to the person and make them a critical part of our life. We dream of talking to them, listen to them, enjoy each other's silence while we stare at each other's faces. Gifts are freely given and received with the expression of joy. Why can't this continue forever? Just after this In-love phase of a relationship that is fueled by emotion comes to the logical phase where the majority of relationships end. The question that begs for an answer is why does this happen, what makes a relationship successful? How To Have A Successful Relationship. Several successful relationships abound and you surely want yours to be successful also. Knowing how to have a successful relationship will help you to know what makes a relationship work and how to love your wife. Here are a few love relationship tips that'll make you enjoy marital bliss, love, and feel loved. 1. Tolerance and Compromise
Compromise is a deliberate acceptance of your partner's interest in order to have peace. It is a show of love that your partner's desire matters to you, as much as yours matters to them. Being in love with your partner and having the intention to love them always does not mean you'll always desire the same thing. Differences due to home upbringing, background, personal preferences can alter your view about a particular matter at hand. Also, there would be moments your partner that has ever made you happy will offend you. Here, you have the choice to make your disagreement known respectfully, tolerate love, or show disdain? Tolerance and compromise is a show of respect and love that can not be bought for your spouse. The good thing about tolerance and compromise is that it can be reciprocated. 2. Effective Communication
Effective communication is the strength of romantic relationships. It helps love partners to keep each other in the loop on their plan, and vision. It makes them feel important, loved, and cared for. A good conversation is basically about learning. Learning other people's views about a particular matter. It is a good way to grow and strengthen the love bond between partners. However, research has shown that not everyone can communicate effectively and efficiently. Communication is the addition of both talking and listening. However, some people are only good at one aspect. Probably, you're a fantastic talker that can convince anyone but can't listen effectively when someone else talks. Listening is a vital part of a relationship. It involves keeping focus. It also involves the occasional expression of non-verbal communication skills such as nodding at intervals, smiling, raising the eyebrows, and a lot more. For you to have effective communication, having a balance between talking and listening is key. 3. Sharing Moments Together
Moments spent together is a great way to strengthen your love bond. A cup of coffee shared together, a visit to the cinema, a visit to the football stadium cheering your favorite team is a good way to share moments together. One great thing about sharing moments together is that it gives partners the grace to reminisce about their value in each other's lives, especially in their absence. Sharing moments together sends a vital message to your partner that more than any other thing, they are important to you. 4. Exchange of Gifts
The exchange of gifts serves as a valuable way to express love. Only an expressed love can be reciprocated. Gifts need not be expensive. Just a short letter expressing how invaluable your partners mean to you and how much you love them is a way to assure your spouse. They are emotional savings that come in handy especially in dreadful moments. 5. Realize what Is Important In A Relationship
Nothing is more important in a relationship than two minds who are willing and working daily to have a successful relationship. Audrey Hepburn said 'the best thing to hold onto in life is each other'. Do you want to know how to love your wife or husband truly and have a successful relationship? Love each other unconditionally, forgive your partner's offense, tolerate, compromise, spend time together, and enjoy your intimacy. Connect with our Coach!
Keisha M. Green
Transformational Life Coach
Green Unlimited PA